This is another big advantage of Taken In Hand for me. If I need to be punished while he is gone, I confess to him over the phone what I have done that deserves punishment and he instructs me of how many swats to take from the spanking machine. That's why this lifestyle works for us. Your wife may or may not feel the need for more frequent spankings, maybe you should discuss it with her. I was just spanked for the first time by my husband last night for lying. He gave me 4 smacks with the wooden spoon, and that last smack stung bad! Been suggests sometime in the past.
How often should I spank my wife?
Ive bin married for23 years now and i still adore him more now than ever! I was treating my husband horribly, until he took me over his knee one day, lifted my skirt and yanked down my panties. Then he sends me to stand in the corner for 2 minutes so that I can focus on the discipline. Looking back, it seems clear to me that my new confidence in my own abilities and strength have allowed me to make the best decisions I could have made in a very tough year. Which Im already dreading tonights spanking!
Life, Love, and DD: Punishment for Misbehavior
He starts slowly and works it up. After a few sessions with a marriage therapist, she recommended that we re-commit to maintenance spankings at a minimum of two times per week. I was so glad that my husband agreed to spank me for that offense, because I was feeling very bad about it, and I knew I had hurt him with my words. Thanks for the post DH I was stunned at first. But in this kind of relationship, you are compelled to want to be submissive after a spanking! Posted by Heather Wright at 9:
Brit I am not alone though If I have earned the spanking it is usually pretty hard and long and he used belts , swithes, and heavy paddles. Our marriage is happier because he spanks me when I need it. Some men of todays generation need to grow a set, stand up and be the leader that their home needs!!! Also, it is not good to have the wife experience the "pins and needles" effect of expectation, plus nervousness, and all the other emotions that come with an impending spanking, then not deliver on your word. As I think he will be mad and find it disrespectful if I keep it from him until after. I know he is in charge and can do anything he wants to me.